Now, on the flipside of the coin, we have 5 traits that are most attractive to us. I gotta say I'm kinda easily impressed though. I look at a guy concentrating at work and I think that's sexy. I see a guy practising his violin and I think that's cute. And my definition of good-looking is often more relaxed than most girls. So it's really not that hard trying to make me think that someone's very eligible.

1. Dependability
What a simple word, but it encompasses so many things. Financial dependability is the most straightforward one, because which woman does not want to be taken care of? Going further than that, stepping up to take charge of a situation shows me that he is in control of things, and that's always sexy. Think cool written all over his face, a steady and peaceful gaze, and a calm presence; we've got sex appeal shot through the roof.

Whew.

2. Intelligence and Ambition
I like being introduced to new and interesting ideas. So if you read a lot and know a lot and think a lot and analyse a lot and teach me a lot, chances are you'll be able to sweep me off my feet really quickly. More than that, guys who seek out new experiences and try to improve themselves and their understanding of the world tend to be people with drive and ambition. And that, is so important to me.

Honestly, it's kinda sad that Aladdin is the only Disney dude who seemed smart in any way.

3. Sense of Humour and Fun
Humour's kinda like an aphrodisiac to me? If you can make me smile/ laugh the whole time when I'm with you, you've got found a shortcut to get me hooked. Taking it up a notch, if you are game to backpack, skydive and bungee-jump with me, I am yours for life. Besides, isn't it romantic, sharing the most thrilling moments of your life with each other?

If only everyday could feel like the best day ever. On another note, Eugene looks like a husband waiting outside a lingerie shop. Fun!

4. Sexual Mastery
But only for me, ha ha ha. A great lover isn't easy to find; Skills can be picked up, but attention to all the details about his partner is not something that all guys are able and/or willing to do. I will try everything I can to satisfy my partner so I expect more or less the same in return. Being happy in bed together is kind of really very important to me.

Guys, practise a smoulder like that because it never goes wrong.

5. Fatherliness
I always get feel this sense of warmth when I see guys playing with kids, or even better, taking care of kids. If you can coax a crying child and aren't afraid to change a baby's diapers, you are definitely marriage material in my books.

Isn't King Mufasa just the best Disney dad though.

Kinda obvious by now that I'm a huge Disney fangirl, huh? If a guy can identify a Disney scene/ song lyric easily, I get so impressed. Also, I just find it truly admirable when guys admit that they like Disney, and say it in a nonchalant way like it doesn't threaten their masculinity. Because it really doesn't. If anything, I personally would wanna marry a guy who would enjoy watching Disney films over and over again with me and our kids.

I guess I just added a 6th attractive trait, oops!

Till next time,

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